Sir
Alexander Hay Seton
(1904-1963)
was the 10th Baron of Abercorn and Armour
Bearer to the Queen. This once rich and magnificent family had
lost its land and money, and for "Sandy" the title was virtually
the only remnant of his wealthy past. Still, he had enough to
finance a tour of the wonders of Egypt, and Sir Alexander's
colourful account is given to us in his autobiography, The
Transgressions of a Baronet. The account of his unpublished
manuscript, although rich in detail, varies from media reports at
the time. He married
Flavia Forbes
(18
Dec 1902-13 Oct 1959); 17 Jun
1939 (div 1958) as her 3rd husband. He was
succeeded by his brother, actor
Bruce Seton.
Both
Sir Alexander and his brother Sir Bruce were accomplished Piper's:
"I was playing
my bagpipes in the topmost room when Anna's Dad answered the
downstairs front door to a gentleman who introduced himself as
Sir Alex Seton of Abercorn. We spoke at length about piping when
he said he and his brother both played. His brother, Bruce Seton (
he played on T.V. Fabian of the Yard in later years) who had been
a Major in the Black Watch during WW2 where he had learned to play
the bagpipes and although he could play pretty well, he wasn't
very good at writing the music of a few melodies he had composed
in his head. We arranged that he duly return and bring his
practice chanter with him to play his compositions when I could
write them down for him."
James Caution Pipe Major (W.O.1)
R.A.M.C Pipe Band.
See an extract
of Sir Alexander's
unpublished autobiography, describing torment the family
experienced after their holiday to Egypt:
After this there
were no more incidents, but the family’s tranquillity was lost
forever. Zeyla never forgave her husband for destroying the bone
and their marriage disintegrated soon afterwards. Ill health and
money problems hounded the family and, according to Egidia,
everyone who touched the bone died prematurely.
Reflecting on it some years later, Sir
Alexander had no doubt as to why the family seemed cursed.
"My own
interpretation of the matter is that through some uncanny power of
religion it was brought under destructive control. But if – and I
emphasise the word 'if' – it really did carry a curse, as many
people thought, the curse certainly did not end when I destroyed
the Bone by fire, and from 1936 onwards trouble, sometimes grave,
seemed to be always around the corner."